As you might recall, I was talked into my first running race by a friend 5+ years ago. I thought it was a one-time thing, until it wasn’t, and this is how my running journey started.
Ever since I started running, I’ve tried to talk other people into running. (We all do this, right? It’s a natural thing to do, wanting to share something we love with the people around us.)
Earlier this year, I had convinced my friend Tanja to run a half marathon with me. Technically, it was a dare and Tanja is ambitious and crazy enough to accept (most) challenges. The time frame was fairly short, but nonetheless, she started a training plan and completed her first half marathon in April. We both ran it as a virtual race, as the one that we were signed up for, got canceled. (Sounds familiar?)
And then last weekend, my sister ran her first half marathon.
Not even 6 months ago, she laughed at me and called me crazy. With 2 kids and a full-time job as a teacher (with no fixed working hours), she always claimed that there was no way to keep a regular fitness routine, let alone train for a half marathon. I get it, there are only so many hours in a day (but I also know that many, many moms find the time to train when they want to.)
When I told her that the San Francisco Marathon Event (which I’ve attended for the half marathon distance every year for the last 4 years) was going to take place during the time when she (and the rest of my family) were supposed to visit, I dared her to run this race with me.
She laughed and said “no”.
I kept poking, and she – apparently – started thinking about it.
I poked more, until she jokingly asked, what would happen if she hypothetically gave this a try and then couldn’t finish the course within the time limit.
I joked back that the sweep bus would pick her up.
Then I promised that this wasn’t going to happen.
She kept making excuses of why she wouldn’t be able to do it, the stupidest reason was that she thought that she wouldn’t be able to keep up with me. That was obviously so not the point and I just kept talking about how that would be the experience of a lifetime to run a race in San Francisco together.
Ha! And that’s when she took the bait.
She then asked if I could suggest a training plan for her (only so that she could take a look at what that would look like, of course).
Long story short: she started following the training plan (run/walk intervals) in March thanks to Corona, which afforded her some unexpected free pockets of time. She wasn’t able to completely stick to the training plan, BUT she kept putting herself out there and, believe it or not, on Sunday, she completed the half marathon distance for the first time.
The SF Marathon would have been two weekends ago. Obviously because of Corona, her trip and the SF Marathon got canceled, so we couldn’t run the race together after all, but she was determined to run the distance after all the work she put in.
So, out of solidarity, and because we really were supposed to run this race together, I set out for my own 13.1 miles on Saturday morning. I thought, if there was any small outside chance that she contemplated bailing out the last minute, this would motivate her to follow through, because hey, we all know how intimidating the first race is, especially if you’re running it as a virtual race all by yourself.
Luckily, our dad agreed to accompany her on his bike and function as a mobile water station, because I stressed how important it was for her to drink and refuel along the way.
Her biggest fear was that she was going to hit a wall some time during the race (as she had during one of the longer practice runs) and that she wouldn’t be able to finish. I emphasized how important it was that she paced herself at the beginning, that she drank water and that she really didn’t pay much attention to pace (which everyone is bound to do, of course), but effort.
Since this was her first half marathon, it was going to be an automatic PR either way!
And I think she kind of outdid herself. Even though she said she was a little disappointed with her finish time (don’t we all always wonder if we could have pushed ourselves just a tad more?), she ran a perfect race and finished strong.
I am so thrilled with her time and so, so proud of her. She would have easily beaten the SF half marathon course limit of 3 hours! No sweep bus necessary (not that it’s a bad thing)!
I am telling you this story, because I want you to believe in yourself. I want you to believe that you can do hard things. And I want to remind you: never say never. What at some point seems impossible, might totally be in reach when you put your mind to it.
There will always be an opportunity to surprise yourself.
This week, I am linking up with Kookyrunner and Zenaida for Tuesday Topics again.
Lisa of Lisa's Yarns
August 4, 2020 at 6:51 amI loved reading about this on IG! I am bummed that you guys couldn’t run it together, though. :( But hopefully next year you can do a redo of the trip?? It’s a bummer to have plans canceled for reasons that are completely out of your control.
My sister is also a running but she is SUPER FAST. Like she qualified for Boston by a several minute margin. We were supposed to run a half together the fall that she was back here due to her husband’s military job. But then I got pregnant and had a bleeding issue with that pregnancy so I couldn’t run. But she still ran the course and I cheered her on at the end. (It wasn’t a course that was set up for spectating and much of it was on paved trails that are hard to access. But I hope that someday we can run a race together. She’ll be basically jogging since she’s so dang fast – ha – but it’s about doing a race together, not trying to PR.
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:25 amOh wow, your sister is really fast if she qualified for Boston. I love that she also wanted to run a race with you and I do hope that you can do that sometime in the future :)
Kim G
August 4, 2020 at 8:18 amThis is so cool! I love how her first reaction was “absolutely not” and then fast forward and she has completed her first half marathon!
Thanks for linking up this week!
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:25 amWhen her first reaction was “absolutely not”, I knew I just had to challenge her long enough… because she does have competitive streak LOL
Tanja
August 4, 2020 at 10:05 amI so wish you guys could have run this HM in San Francisco together – but I’m sure, it’s happening one day.
So so so excited for your sister to finish her HM. I don’t get how she can be even a little bit disappointed in it – I think she did fantastic!!!!!
Congrats from the “Crazy one” lol (xo)
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:26 amThank you. She’s about just as “half crazy” as you :)
Deborah Brooks
August 4, 2020 at 5:14 pmI love stories like this! I was also talked into my first 10 miler and half by a friend. Hope you both get to run the next one in person together
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:26 amThank you! I love how the running bug is contagious ;)
Beckett @ Birchwood Pie
August 4, 2020 at 6:17 pmCongrats to your and your sister for not letting COVID stop your race. Runners get it done even in a pandemic. Here’s to many more halfs for both of you, hopefully together very soon.
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:27 amThanks so much. I hope she will keep running!
Shathiso
August 5, 2020 at 1:57 amI love this San! And I think it was you who mentioned to me (I guess over 6 months ago now) that you were trying to get your sister to run!!! This is just incredible and her time is actually faster than my first Half Marathon time! Wow – what a feel good story! Thanks for sharing and please let her know how awesome she is!
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:27 amI think I did tell you about it. Didn’t you run a race with your sister, or something? Anyway, thanks so much for your kind words, I’ll let you know that you think she’s awesome :)
Chocolaterunsjudy
August 5, 2020 at 7:17 amYour sister is a bada$$! I seriously don’t know if I would have ever run my first as a virtual event. Tell her she did great! If it makes her feel better, my first have was over 30 minutes slower. :)
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:28 amThank you! I was so proud of her too! I’ll let her know and as I said to her, I think everybody who finishes a HM (regardless of time!) is bada$$! ;)
Lecy | A Simpler Grace
August 5, 2020 at 9:54 amWhat a great story! She should be so proud of herself. And you are such an encouragement and inspiration in your own fitness journey, San. <3
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:19 pmThanks Lecy, I really appreciate that <3
Zenaida Arroyo
August 5, 2020 at 4:03 pmThis is a great story and I am happy you shared it with us. Bummer that you two could not run it together.
Thank you for linking up with us!
San
August 5, 2020 at 8:19 pmThanks, Zenaida.
Catrina
August 5, 2020 at 9:48 pmWhat a nice success story! It shows that we runners should never stop encouraging other people (perhaps sometimes annoying for them, hahaha).
I hope your sister will stick with her new running routine.
Gretchen
August 6, 2020 at 10:00 amGreat story!! It’s definitely true that once you’re hooked on running you want everyone else to do it. Also good on you for running a virtual half…I can’t motivate myself enough to do that but did a 5k!
Stephany
August 6, 2020 at 10:39 amAww, I love that your sister still continued to train and ran the half-marathon distance even though she couldn’t come to SF for the race! That’s true dedication. I would have been like, “Welllll, that’s a sign I shouldn’t be doing this.” HA. :) Not the experience you wanted to have, but I’m glad you guys got to run virtually together, at least!
Tobia | craftaliciousme
August 16, 2020 at 12:50 amThat is so much determination – on both of you. You for not stopping to annoy her about it and she for actually picking up the runnings shoes, get started and follow through. This almost makes me want to try this running thing… almost.