What I read in February

I’ve picked up my reading pace again a little bit in February and finished 5 books. Three of them were really good and I’d highly recommend you put them on your to-read list!

The Rules of Magic by Alice Hoffman (★★★★☆)

I generally love novels that combine great story-telling with historical facts, descriptive writing and multi-layered characters, complex plots and plot twists. This book has it all.

The three siblings, Franny, Jet and Vincent Owens grow up in 1950’s New York and are instructed by their parents to live by certain rules in order to avoid the family curse, which goes back to 1620’s in Massachusetts when their ancestor, Maria Owens was “charged with witchery for loving the wrong man.” The most important rule – do not fall in love . Well, of course all three of them do and as they grow up they have to learn who they really are, learn to love more, not less, and how to use the powers that were bestowed upon them.

This book is tragic and heart-warming, funny and haunting, and it is about extraordinary family history and relationships and, of course, about love.

We were the lucky ones by Georgia Hunter (★★★★★)

It’s hard to say that you loved a book that tells the (fictionalized but true) story of the horror and cruelty that a Jewish family endured during WWII. By its very nature, it is going to be difficult and heartbreaking read. The book is based on the lives of the author’s family, which she reconstructed after she learned that her grandfather was a Holocaust survivor.

I found myself alternately horrified reading about the cruelest of their treatment and the conditions under which they were forced to live, and at the same time I couldn’t help but hope and cheer for the members of the Kurc family. It is so hard to fathom that these things really happened to people, let alone that so many members of one family were able to survive such a great amount of close calls. A really captivating read.

Operating Instructions: A journal of my son’s first year by Anne Lamott (★★☆☆☆)

I will say upfront that I am not a mother, so maybe you might think that this is why I couldn’t appreciate this book, but I don’t think that this is the only reason. While a (new) mother probably can relate much better to the fears and insecurities of having to take care of a newborn baby, I was turned off by a lot of Lamott’s whining. I have many friends with kids and none of them ever complained or whined to me like this. Sure, motherhood – especially new motherhood – is undoubtedly hard and it probably throws some people off more than they thought it would. I won’t deny that for a minute. But, I was really appalled by some of the things the author said about her son (and men in general). I didn’t think she was funny (although she tried hard to be) and a lot of the  ‘journal entries’ were just ramblings and unrelated thought snippets that IMHO didn’t have a point whatsoever. I am not quite sure why this book got such raving reviews from others.

Boundaries: When to say Yes, how to say No to take control of your life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend (★★★☆☆)

I guess I should have read up more about this book before diving in. It had 4+ star reviews on Goodreads, so I figured it must be really good. And don’t get me wrong, there was some really good, valuable advice in this book. I did finish it and thought some parts were really important, but overall it was way too Bible/God-heavy for me. There were parts that implied that you couldn’t possibly be a moral person with good boundaries if you weren’t a Christian and that simply is NOT TRUE. One could have easily written this book (and even made references to faith) without peppering it with Bible verses and being all preach-y.

Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City by Matthew Desmond (★★★★☆)

A powerful and heartbreaking non-fiction book that is a must-read for anyone who wants to understand the perpetuating and crippling effects of poverty. We’re introduced to 8 families in Milwaukee, who struggle to stay afloat. One likes to think that people with little means have support. We hear about public housing and food stamps, but often we don’t realize that people in poverty often spend upwards of 80% of their income on housing, which leaves them with very little money to live on, let alone wiggle room to save up for emergencies. People without resources and without a safety net are on constant high alert because one mishap or one miscalculation can derail their painstakingly tight budget and throw them into turmoil.

Desmond details how he collected the data by emerging himself into communities he was studying, and how thorough he was about his recording methods and verifying information. It becomes clear that he wanted the facts of this book irrefutably backed up (footnotes throughout the book support the author’s embedded fieldwork and extensive research on the topic and particular situations of these families) and that he wanted these stories to be heard.

One line stuck with me, especially because it is so easy for onlookers to judge poor people for indulging in nonessential purchases or for using drugs and alcohol. It’s worthwhile to remember that  “people […] live[d] with so many compound limitations that it is difficult to imagine the amount of good behavior or self-control that would allow them to lift themselves out of poverty.” I can only imagine how challenging it is to get the upper hand when the odds are so highly stacked against you.

What was your favorite book last month? Leave a comment, and then add me on Goodreads to keep in touch.

  1. I think I’ll need to add “We Were the Lucky Ones” to my to-read list. “Evicted” came through for me on Overdrive last month, but I didn’t have it in me at the time to read such a heavy book…

    1. Both of these books were so good! I hope you get around to reading Evicted. It’s eye-opening and so important.

  2. The Rules of Magic kind of reminds me of the movie Practical Magic!!

    The best book I read recently was Ready Player One… right now I’m in the middle of a biography about Jim Henson aka the founder of the Muppets!

    1. Rules of Magic is the prequel to the book (and movie) Practical Magic ;)

  3. Evicted was a really good book! I work in social services, and I have been suggesting it to my coworkers.

    My favorite book in February was We ARe Going To Need More Wine by GaBrielle Union, it had everything I need for a celebrity autobiography.

  4. The first two books sound like they are both really good and I’ll be adding them to my reading list! The Anne Lamont book doesn’t sound appealing to me, as a mom I will say I was clueless and I’m sure was complainy at times when my son was a newborn too, but I don’t think I’d be quite like that. I have friends who can’t have kids so I think this book might insult them. Thanks for the heads up on it!!But the Rules of Magic and We Were the Lucky Ones are going on my list!

  5. I may need to put a few of these on my reading list. If you haven’t already read it, you might also like “Those Who Save Us” by Jenna Blum.

  6. Yeah, I don’t think I’d like Boundaries if it was too heavy on the religion (and a bit judgy at that to be honest). Thanks for sharing all of these though! I love seeing what everyone is reading. :)


  7. The Rules of Magic sounds really good!

  8. Evicted was one of my favorite books from last year. Such an important topic!

    I think my favorite book from last month was Troublemaker by Leah Remini. I’ve never read a Scientology memoir before and it was so eye-opening and shocking.

  9. I’m so impressed that you are able to read so many books a month! I have so many running and fitness books on my bookshelf that I have yet to read. You inspired me to start at least one book this month!

  10. I got that Boundaries book for free or super cheap on my kindle. But I think I will skip it based on your review. I don’t do well with super Bible or God-focused books as sometimes they rub me the wrong way, even though I am Catholic.

    I loved We Were the Lucky Ones, but feel weird saying I ‘loved’ a book that was so sad and heavy. I loved that it was based on a true story and I enjoyed reading about the real people the book was based upon.

    February was a good reading month for me. My favorites were “The Royal We” (a light read that got me through the final days of pregnancy), the 3rd Louise Penny Inspector Gamache book, and An American Marriage which is the latest Oprah book club book which I got from BOTM.

  11. Adding these to my to read list! Evicted has been on my list forever and it’s even sitting on my Kindle. I need to buckle up and read it.

  12. And a gain I have added 2 books from your list to mine… how am I ever gonna catch up…
    Thanks for the recommendations though. Having a list of books to read is a nice thing to complain about ;-)

Comments are closed.